Re: Goal

Do you remember that after I asked you to read the article on Shortness of life? You said the author was probably wasting his time writing the article. What is the definition of wasting time?

I have been thinking about what you said for a few days. You are right. What is the definition of  time wasting?

If you have a goal and you do not try to achieve it. It is time wasting. A goal is not going to achieve itself, it requires planning. Everyday needs to be planned so that you are working closer towards your goal. The goal could be anything, travelling around the world, earning 1 million, marrying Kam Sau etc..... A person does not have a goal or planning will be pushed around. He will be used as a step stone for other people to reach what they wanted.

People who do not have goals should plan their time searching for one, using strategies such as increasing their life experiences, reading, travelling, talking to people etc searching for what they would like to achieve with their lives should be their first priority. If they don't do this, they are wasting their time.

Therefore, the answer to your question is the definition of time wasting varies among individuals. It depends on your goals in life.

You know what, I feel happy when I can answer your question....haha

Re: Sharing

I bumped into Peta today in the corridor. Peta is a medical student one year above me. We have a lot in common. We were both physiotherapists and we both graduated from University of Sydney. So we talked about our hospital experiences so far. She was telling me how frustrated she is with the hospital system. I agreed with her. Despite the feedback she gave to medical school, nothing has changed. We have to fight so hard to learn something in the ward. At that moment, I just felt, ' Thank god! Someone agrees with me.!' I guess it's like last time when you talked to one of your colleagues from another team and he agreed with you that Simon and Henry are two weirdos, and how you can put up with them without going crazy.

When we find someone who shares the same belief, value and experience with us, we instantly feel happy!

Re: Questions

It felt good, when someone asked you a very hard question that no one expected you to know the answer. but then you answer the question correctly. Not because you studied exceptionally hard but just that you happened to know the answer for some peculiar reasons. When this happens, you just feel happy and want to scream, " Yeah!."

Re: Great day

You know sometimes you just have a day that you feel, 'well, I 've done well today.' You are not sure what you did different compared to other days but just people around seem to be nice to you, things go smoothly and you just feel, 'Well, I hope everyday is like that.' When such a day happens, I feel happy.

Re: Phone Conversation

You know what, talking to you on the phone has become part of my life. If I don't talk to you for a day, I will miss you heaps, I don't feel right.  When I go out, I also want you to be there. Whenever I think of you, I just feel happy instantly.

Re: Weekend

Have you ever had a weekend that you don't have to do anything, just eat and sleep and relax and hang out with friends. Of course, if you do this every weekend, it won't feel special but if you do it once for a while, it just feel good.

Re: T.V. Game

T.V. game could be quite fun, especially when you are playing it with your friends. Sometimes we take it pretty serious but it 's part of the fun. I would love to play t.v. game with you kam Sau. (I am at eugene;s place, I will post the picture later)